sorry this is a random comment to you
but I thought i'd just say

I agree I agree

to your words in one of the threads.
"Maybe your the one being selfish? It isn't cheap raising up a kid until they are 16-20 until they are independent to do their own thing. I don't know about you, but I feel it's like an unwritten rule to take care of those who love you, especially the parents. Don't take things for granted in life... it'll cloud you with wrong judgement. "

*thumbs up*